Don’t Get Stuck In The Shit Cycle …

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So I had a friend suggest to me that all this ‘What’s so right’ and ‘what you focus on grows’ stuff was not real. That it doesn’t work.  Their thoughts were that just thinking ‘happy’ thoughts was naive and that life could not possibly change by just being positive.  And you know what, they are right.  Because in life, shit happens.  It will always happen. And there is not really any way of stopping it from happening.  We cannot control the uncontrollable. And the thing that I know for sure about life, is that it is 100% uncontrollable. Sorry to all the control freaks out there (I use to be one of them) but this is the first step.  Accepting this.

So how does this ‘what’s so right’ stuff work?  Ok, so focusing on ‘what’s so right’ in your life does not and will not stop shit from happening.  I am not at all suggesting that we skip through life, smelling wild flowers, looking at the world through rose coloured glasses, singing Kumbaya and chanting ohm!

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Stop looking for dinosaurs!

Stop looking for dinosaurs!

 

“It’s only when we are suspended in mid-air with no landing in sight that we force our wings to unravel and begin our flight” ~ C. Joybell C.

This is the most perfect quote as I write my first ever blog.  I have thought about blogging for almost ten years now. I read them, I have shared them, I have attended blogging workshops and now here I am, approaching fifty years of age and finally have the courage to force my wings to unravel with absolutely no landing in sight!

I am going to share loads of stuff with you.  And here’s my promise to you from the get go.  I will ONLY focus on ‘what’s so right’.  Whether I am sharing parts of my life, personal experiences, stuff I know, whatever it is my philosophy is to choose to see what’s right and to not waste my precious days on this planet living in the ‘what’s wrong’.

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